Thursday, October 3, 2019

Avoid Negativity

This has been a very challenging week in many ways.  My life is super busy outside of work.  My kids are just starting to get to the age where they are super involved with many activities, and I act as their personal shuttle service.  My life at work has also been extremely stressful.  There are some students who are causing challenges for some of the teachers, and the negativity has been a struggle.  Now, I'm not saying that you should abandon a colleague when they are having a rough time!  No.  In fact, I would advocate the opposite.  However, some people just carry a storm cloud wherever they go, no matter how often you try to help.

The second half of this week has been dedicated to positivity.  I have offered my help to others and done my best, but I also need to make sure I am in a positive frame of mind.  I love my job, and I don't want to bring a negative energy to my students.  Unfortunately, I had to take a break from some of the people who were pulling me down.  We are all working with the same students and all experiencing the same challenges.  I want to look at my situation with hope and positivity.  I may be let down at times, but overall, I feel like this will make me better.  I have also taken time to exercise in the mornings.  It has made me feel centered and in control.

I think that it is okay to step away.  It is okay to surround yourself with positivity.  Always offer to help, but you do not need to go down with their ship.

For more positivity, check out this video.  My sister made me watch it.  It has nothing to do with education, but sure made me laugh.  Just a warning, it is SNL, so there is some language.